Depression
Depression is more than just the blues or the blahs. It makes a
person less able to manage life. It affects a persons mood, mind,
body, and behaviors. Depression can be as much an illness as
diabetes, etc.
Causes
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Brain chemical imbalances |
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Life changes, such as going
away to college, the ending of a relationship, retirement,
loss of a job or death of a loved one. (See
“Grief/Bereavement”.) |
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Concern about one’s grades
and/or workload |
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Worrying about money |
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Medical illness, surgery, or
disability |
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Abuse of alcohol, drugs, and
some medications |
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Lack of natural, unfiltered
sunlight between late fall and spring in some sensitive
people. This is called Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD). |
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Holiday “blues” |
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Low self-esteem |
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Symptoms
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Ongoing feelings of sadness,
helplessness, hopelessness, guilt, or worthlessness. Crying. |
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Loss of interest in activities that
used to bring pleasure, including sex |
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Fatigue. Loss of energy or enthusiasm. |
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Difficulty concentrating or making
decisions |
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Anger, anxiety, or irritability |
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Physical symptoms, such as headaches
or digestive problems that don’t respond to treatment and don’t let
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Changes in eating and sleeping
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Whatever the cause, depression can be treated. Treatment includes
medication, psychotherapy, and other therapies specific to the cause of the
depression, such as exposure to bright light (similar to sunlight) for
depression that results from SAD.
Questions to Ask
Have you just attempted suicide, are you making plans for
suicide or do you have repeated thoughts of suicide or death?
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Have you noticed a loss of interest or pleasure in almost all
activities most of the day, nearly every day for at least two
weeks?
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Have you been in a depressed mood most of the day, nearly
every day and have you had any of these problems for at least
two weeks?
- Feeling hopeless, worthless, guilty, slowed down, or
restless
- Changes in appetite or weight
- Problems concentrating, thinking, remembering, or making
decisions
- Feeling tired all the time. Trouble sleeping or sleeping
too much
- Headaches or other aches and pains
- Digestive or sexual problems
- Feeling worried or anxious
- Thoughts of death or suicide
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Has depression interfered with daily activities for more than
two weeks? Have you withdrawn from normal activities during this
time?
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Has the depression occurred with any of the following?
- Recent delivery of a baby
- A medical problem
- Taking over-the-counter or prescription medicine
- Abusing alcohol or drugs
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Are you depressed now and do any of the following apply?
- You have been depressed before and not gotten treatment.
- You have been treated for depression in the past and it
has returned.
- You have taken medication for depression in the past.
- You have a family history of depression in a close
relative.
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Does the depression come with dark, cloudy weather or winter
months and does lift when spring comes?
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During holiday times, do you withdraw from family and friends or
dwell on past holidays to the point that it interferes with your
present life?
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Self-Help
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Take medications as prescribed. Get
your doctor’s advice before you take over-the-counter herbs, such as
St. John’s Wort, especially if you take other medications. |
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Don’t use illegal drugs. Limit
alcohol. These can cause or worsen depression. Drugs and alcohol can
also make medicines for depression less effective. Harmful side
effects can happen when alcohol and/or drugs are mixed with
medicine. |
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Eat healthy foods. Eat at regular
times. |
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Exercise regularly. |
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Try not to isolate yourself. Be with
people you trust and feel safe with, even though you feel down. |
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Do something you enjoy. |
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Relax. Listen to upbeat music. Read a
good book. Take a warm bath or shower. Do relaxation exercises. |
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Talk to a friend, relative, co-worker
or anyone who will let you express the tensions and frustrations you
are feeling. |
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Keep an emergency number handy (e.g.,
crisis hotline, trusted friend’s number, etc.) in case you feel
desperate. |
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If suicidal thoughts are present,
remove any weapons, pills, etc. that could be used for suicide and
get medical help. |
What You Can Do for a Friend or Relative
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The most important thing you
can do is to get your friend or relative to seek
professional treatment. Their illness, especially if it is
severe and has persisted for a long time, will not go away
on its own. Try to give positive feedback to the person
about seeking help. |
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Help them get treatment. You
may need to make the initial appointment with a
professional. You may need to take them to the appointment. |
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Be observant. Do not ignore
suicide references. These should be reported to the person’s
therapist or physician immediately. |
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Know their medication. You
should alert their physician about any side effects that you
notice when they take medication. |
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Be supportive. Depression
requires the patience, understanding, love and encouragement
of the person’s loved ones and friends. |
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Talk to them. Encourage the
depressed person to talk about their feelings. Helping them
see that they have succeeded at something or are
“worthwhile” in other matters can help give them the
confidence they need to continue with treatment. |
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Encourage the person to go out
and do things with you or with others, such as to see a
movie or attend a social event. Do things the depressed
person enjoyed in the past. |
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Seek support from
organizations and self-help groups that deal with
depression. (See “National Resources”.) |
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