Systematic Stress Management Program
Step 3: Type A & B Behavior Section
Take Steps to Become Type B
Now that you’ve identified your Type A and Type B characteristics, the next step is to begin making adjustments. Below is a list of suggestions. Complete all four steps. Check off each item as you practice it.
Step 1 – Become Aware of Type A Behaviors
• Review the Self-Inventory.
• Ask a friend or relative for feedback on your Type A characteristics.
• Look in a mirror throughout the day. Notice facial gestures indicating anger, upset, or strain.
• Ask yourself at the end of the day, “Did I do anything which might have been hurtful to anyone?”
• Ask yourself at the end of the day, “Did I show anyone a kind gesture or say a kind word?”
• Each day, write down the things that make you angry. Take note of the time, place, your thoughts, and actions. Look for common or repeated items.
Step 2 – Inject These Type B Behaviors Into Your Lifestyle
• Take a break and daydream.
• Eat a light lunch and take time to browse in a store or walk in the park.
• Smile at someone.
• Allow some time to be alone each day.
• Notice something of beauty.
• Practice a relaxation technique.
• Stop using obscenities.
• Practice patience and trust.
• Allow yourself to lose at a game.
• Put yourself in someone else’s shoes.
• Learn to laugh at yourself.
Step 3 – Purposefully Show Kindness
• Accept others as they are.
• Tell close friends or relatives that you appreciate them.
• Buy a small gift for someone for no reason.
• Call or write a friend or relative.
• Plan an outing for dinner or the movies to surprise someone.
• Say a positive, “Good Morning,” to family members and co-workers.
• Find an opportunity to say, “Perhaps I’m wrong.” every day, even if you doubt you are.
Step 4 – Dispel the Following Myths
• I need to be hostile to get ahead.
• I can’t change, this is just the way I am.
• Showing love and kindness is a sign of weakness.
• There is a right and perfect solution to everything.
• It is weak to act unsure or doubtful.
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